Top 10 Benefits of being Single
23 Comments March 1, 2006 4506 Views
This article is basically for men, but I guess most of it can apply to all single persons out there.
No matter where you look, from movies to magazine ads, men are always being told that they need a woman to be happy. And while the company of a lady does have its boons, there are benefits to flying solo as well.
The single life is replete with liberties that you could not imagine. Here are the top 10 reasons you should consider taking a hiatus from the relationship arena and remain single.
10. You don’t have to tolerate moodiness & nagging
Fellas, how many times have you been in the doghouse because your woman was livid for reasons you still don’t understand? Relish not being the target of her inexplicable mood swings, and the calm that comes when there’s no nagging. When you wake up on the couch, you’ll know it’s because you chose to pass out there.
9. You can gain weight without worrying
Just as you can spend more time buffing up at the gym, you can also just chill and let yourself go for a little while. When you’re not on the market, you don’t have to worry about looking like an Adonis every day. Go ahead and wear that threadbare Metallica T-shirt and those holey boxers. Enjoy the pleasure of occasionally being a slob. Just don’t go so far that you can’t trim down in time for when you decide to start hunting.
8. You can appreciate your independence
You can use your newfound free time for solitary fun, as well as self-improvement. Being single forces you to do things for yourself, like cook, do laundry and tidy up your pad. Being skilled at many things makes you a more complete, well-rounded person — a great card to hold when you decide to reenter the dating market.
Furthermore, independence is a great trait, and women will likely notice that you’re not the needy, clingy type.
7. You can control your finances
If you’ve ever been in a serious relationship, you know that, sooner or later, a good chunk of your budget goes into steady lady-maintenance costs. Bachelorhood gives you full financial freedom, and you never have to worry about paying for dinner or buying presents.
However, understand that this does not mean that you will save money — on the contrary; you might be spending more on partying, buying drinks, dressing well, and so on. But at least you are the master of every single dollar you spend.
6. You have more time for activities
When you’re single, you have no reason to sit around doing nothing. Want to harden your body at the gym? Play a new instrument? How about watch the Die Hard trilogy for the 11th time? Who’s stopping you?
You can even use the time that you’d spend pleasing a demanding girlfriend to hang with the boys. After all, isn’t neglecting your friends one of the biggest sacrifices of couplehood?
Look forward to being spontaneous, not having to answer to anyone and flirting like crazy…
5. You don’t have to deal with another’s personal habits
You used to cringe when she used your razor to shave her legs, and the scented candles she burned in every room made you sick. Now there’s no irritating habits to tolerate. You can sleep peacefully without her snoring and hog all the blankets without a care in the world. You have no one to pick up after but yourself. Give your patience a well-deserved break and live in unflustered.
4. You can be spontaneous
Being single lets your break out of the numbing cycle of routine. Be daring while you can. Go on a fishing trip with your crew at the drop of a hat. Push it further and head out on a wild Spring Break surrounded by gorgeous college women. Not only will you be doing something out of the ordinary, you can do it without double-checking with someone else first. This is the height of freedom.
3. You can focus on your career
Life is a juggling act in which you have to keep the many elements aloft, paying equal attention to each one. But if you let one drop, you can channel your forces to the remaining parts. In the absence of a relationship, you’ll have much more time to devote to your work. You can put in those extra hours on a project to impress your boss, and even take on something else. And you don’t have to worry about sacrificing your love life, as you’ll be single and vigorous.
2. You can be your own boss
Relationships are synonymous with compromise. You eventually have to sacrifice something you really like — a football game or extra cheese on your pizza — for the good of the pair. Use your single time to treat yourself a little more. In small doses, selfishness is good for the soul.
Being your own boss also means answering to no one. You went to a strip club? You got the scent of some woman’s perfume all over your clothes? Enjoy not having to explain your actions.
1. You can flirt as you please
Nothing is worse than that nagging voice in your head telling you that you shouldn’t be talking to this killer brunette in front of you. Being single gives you the complete freedom to flirt with whomever you want, whenever you want.
It also gives you the chance to sharpen your mojo so that, before you know it, you’ll be the master player on your block. Since you’re unattached, take this opportunity to master the art of seduction, and who knows what rewards you’ll reap.
The bright side of solitude
Everything has a good side; you just have to learn how to spot it. Society places too much importance on finding a mate, something your hormones are quick to enforce. The next time you get that pesky feeling that you have to be with someone, remember these 10 points, and you’ll savor the joys of being a free man.
*This is another repost; article from Askmen.com
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“Nothing is worse than that nagging voice in your head telling you that you shouldn’t be talking to this killer brunette in front of you” but if that brunette mala artista ang hitsura, ok lang akong ma-nag.
Oh man… I’m so happy my single days are over.
It’s hard to find the “right” person.
LOL
Thank Gawd I did.
@gbert - hehe..so you’d take the risk and face the consequences huh?
@ana - my days being single are numbered and i believe that i found the “right” person. i thank God for it.
haha, i think mas masaya maging single muna, enjoy life while single kase wala lang. mas enjoy sa ngayon dahil bata pa naman ako haha…
is it just me, or does that article sound bitter?
anyway, my stand on this issue is that everyone has quirks.
if you really love your GF, that means you can stand and even love those quirks. of course, saving up a few pesos isn’t bad at all. 
Its great being single but there are and will always be times when you wish you had someone beside you to comfort.
Love the Blog and the Layout of the site!
Hey, I’ll be adding your blog to my blogroll. Speak soon!
it depends to your partner.
in my case, i still have those benefits except for …
1. You can flirt as you please
it’s my own will to avoid flirting.
You should have posted this on Valentines Day..
nice site layout..
And you have the big TV all to yourself.
true lahat yan… lalu na ung #1 haha…
Let’s not forget the inevitable fight over the toilet seat! Or who stays over when & how often. Your list is equally appropriate for the ladies…
@jong - being single and being in a relationship both has its advantages and disadvantages. so just make the most out of whatever situation you are in.
@ade - yeah, i think it does sound a bit bitter. hehe
@paradox - thanks. yeah, it is nice to have someone to comfort you especially when you are down.
@ash - good for you to have a partner who gives you much freedom. i think she’s very understanding and has complete trust in you.
@can - yeah, i didn’t find this article til after V-day. thanks.
@abaniko - yeah, and the remote control too! hehe
@yen - #1 huh? hehe..
@sarah - true. toilet seats should be part of the discussion.
I can’t even remember what it was like to be single. I can’t see how it could be any better than being married when the person that you are married to is also your oldest and best friend. We’ve been married 33 years and usually, when I’m not at work, we are together, doing things together. Next year, I plan to retire at age 55 — and we are planning already what we will be doing together.
she does. *thankful
I happy Im not single anymore… Single sucks!
Being single certainly does have it’s advantages. You have the liberty of doing and going anywhere without having to check-in with anyone. But even then, that gets tiring.
It’s an amazing feeling knowing that someone else other than a family member loves you. Knowing that no matter how difficult work or a relationship with a family member may be, you can always count on a shoulder to lean on. Being single is great but having someone on your side is GREATER!
@mike - you’re a lucky man to have married your bestfriend. it’s good to hear about folks that are happily married. God bless with your retirement plans.
@ash - good for you.
@trench - hehe..i’m about to join the club.
@jorgeq - yeah, i agree that having someone to love and who loves you is indeed greater.
“….is it just me, or does that article sound bitter?…”
At what point does the article seems bitter? That’s what most of you fail to realize.
Unlike most that commented, being single is not about bitterness. In fact, there are more “single and happy” people out there than most of you realize. It depends on a person whether to remain single or not. No one should be pressured on find “Mr. or Mrs. Right”. I rather be single and happy than being with someone that’s miserable.
@Bob - I agree with you. I was a single guy for more than four years and I wasn’t bitter. Although there were times when I wish I had someone special, it didn’t make me depressed or anything like that. I enjoyed being single and spent my time for myself.
Finding Mr. or Ms. Right is a process that shouldn’t be hurried just like you said. For the last line I say Amen!
For me, I think I need more time of being single!
@deuts - Yeah, just have fun and enjoy being single. The time will come when you realize that you need someone to take care of you then you can start thinking of settling down.
I’ve got something in my life
to take a good chance to be good bf after and to be a husband someday
that’s the way to hang on coz I believe that destiny can move me through faith and hope